Being “Under the Influence”: Growing as a Discerning People

Where can Tabernacle’s passions and resources be aligned with God’s desires to meet a significant need (or needs) in our community?

While our Building 4 Hope Team has been busy considering the logistics of who we need to hear from and what the next steps are to move the process along, we have also acknowledged the tension between moving the process along and “discerning before acting.”

There is no lack of ideas about what we could do, but where and how will we choose an area of focus? We need to be “under the influence” of the Holy Spirit, so it is time to put some focused commitment to our discernment practices, and this involves our entire community.

In the next few weeks we will be opening the HOPE SPACE, a prayer room with the objective of supporting and encouraging each other in the ongoing and consistent practices of listening for the Spirit’s guidance. We will explore a variety of ways in which we can attune to what God wants us to hear about this question.

Please prayerfully consider how and when you can practice both individually and with others in your church family.

Donna Slaughter, B4H Team Member


B4H: Team Update, May 17, 2026

Over the past several months, the Building for Hope Initiative has focused intentionally on listening, trust-building, and discernment as we consider how God may be calling us to use our campus and congregational assets in new ways for the good of our community. We have held extensive conversations with members of the congregation last fall, with neighbors in recent weeks, with approximately twenty individuals connected to our community ministries, and with a variety of community leaders. Across all of these conversations, we have encountered remarkable openness, encouragement, and imagination. Even ideas that might once have been assumed to generate resistance—such as affordable housing—have been met with thoughtful support and a shared desire for the church to respond boldly to community needs.

As we continue this work, we are exploring social enterprise opportunities that exist at the intersection of three key considerations: meeting real community needs, aligning with the passions and mission of our congregation, and making faithful use of the physical and relational assets God has entrusted to us. We continue to return to this framework as a way of discerning not simply what is possible, but what is most aligned with our calling.

One important area of focus is our relationship with the Child Care Center. We are actively working with its leadership to better align governance, space usage, and mission with a potential social enterprise model. This raises important questions for the church as well: to what extent is this work mission-driven ministry, and to what extent is it an enterprise intended to sustain itself financially? We recognize that this is not an either/or question, but a continuum that requires careful discernment. We also acknowledge that there is important relational work to do in bringing our church and childcare communities back into closer connection and shared purpose.

Several areas have emerged as particularly promising for further exploration. These include food ministry and feeding programs, especially given that our kitchen is a significant community asset that is currently underutilized. We are also exploring ways to deepen our role as a convener—bringing people together in fellowship, gathering, and connection—which remains one of the congregation’s greatest strengths and passions. Childcare, housing, and potential partnerships with other nonprofits also remain active areas of consideration.

At this stage, we continue to pray for God to reveal the right partners and opportunities to help bring this vision into fuller focus. We are actively engaging with the Child Care Center to better understand their hopes, dreams, and long-term vision for ministry and service. We have also held a preliminary meeting with an architect to begin exploring what future use cases for our campus might realistically support.

As this process continues, we invite the congregation to join us in prayer and discernment. Think about who you know in the community—individuals, organizations, or leaders whom God may place in our path as partners in this work. And pray also for wisdom and courage: not only to recognize what new possibilities God may be opening before us, but also to understand what we may need to release in order to make room for what comes next.

Join Us for the Church Picnic Today: at Fiske’s Home

We are confirmed for today’s church picnic at the home of Judy and Eric Fiske, Sunday, April 26, from 5 to 7 p.m.

The weather looks a little cool, so bundle up, bring a chair or blanket, and join us for a good evening together. Judy and Eric’s home features one of Richmond’s great treasures: a glorious yard, a wraparound porch that deserves its own fan club, and Judy’s numerous flower beds!

Please bring a side dish to share. Tabernacle will provide fried chicken.

Judy and Eric have asked that guests park on Cedar Lane or on their side of New Kent Road. Please do not park on the opposite side of the street from the front of their house.

Please reach out to a staff member for Judy and Eric’s home address.

Growing as a discerning people

Our Building for Hope team had a recent opportunity to consider how the process of discernment will be “baked in” to our decision making.  How will we go about 
discerning where those three circles of Congregational Passion, Congregational Assets and Community Need intersect to show us what our Social Enterprise could be? 

We are in the stage of deep listening.   During Holy Week, we asked you to pray us through this process by sitting with these questions before God:  

➢ Where do You want us to join You in Your work in this community?

➢ What is our church uniquely able to offer to make your Kingdom visible and viable here? 

Listening in prayer is a bit different than what we are used to.  God speaks in many ways, through Scripture, other people, history, the arts, nature current events, and the church to name a few.    

As discerning people, how do we hear the voice of God clearly through the competing voices of our own thoughts/ideas/mixed motives/distractions?

St. Ignatius of Loyola is regularly cited as a guide for discernment, wisely noting that this is a “practice” involving growing our relationship with God.   A good start is his Daily Examen, which is a daily time set aside to reflect on our day with these questions: where did we experience God and how did we respond?

You can read more specifics at https://www.jesuitseastois.org/examen

Might you try a time of “Examen” this week?

B4H: Discernment


TBC has embarked on a true quest in every sense of the word: Building for Hope
Culture has changed; attitudes about church as we have know it have changed.  We have chosen to find out how we can continue connecting people to God in ways that show the world that we are followers of Christ in both words and deeds, both what we do and how we go about doing it.


How can we meet real, ongoing needs in our community and how can we resource this mission so that we can be here for this community for years to come?   This is what authors Henry Blackaby and Claude King (in Experiencing God) would call a “God-sized task.”


This won’t be decided by majority rule.   We have chosen to “pray, listen and discern” before acting, and “we” means all of us.


Will you commit to pray us through this process?
 Currently we are in the process of widening our circle of community members to hear what they know is needed in our community, what they long and hope for. They are part of us and several of our conversations so far have revealed that they are very interested in what we have done and what we might undertake.


–  Pray that we can listen deeply, for understanding to all those we speak with


– Pray that we can listen deeply to each other as we consider a wide range of possibilities for stewarding our space.

– Spend some time in silence before God with the question: “Where do you want us to join You in Your work in this community?  What is our church uniquely able to offer to make your Kingdom visible and viable here?

Helping One Another Stay Safe from Scams

We want to make you aware of a growing trend in which individuals impersonate pastors or church leaders through text or email, often requesting gift cards or urgent financial help.

Please know this clearly:

Tabernacle Baptist Church and the Child Care Center Ministry will never request gift cards, money, or financial assistance through text message or personal email.

From time to time, we do invite financial support for the life and ministry of the church. When we do, those invitations will always come through recognized and consistent channels, such as:

  • Official church email communications
  • Our website
  • Sunday worship or printed materials

These invitations will never be urgent, secretive, or pressure-driven.

If you ever receive a message that feels unusual, unexpected, or urgent, we encourage you to pause rather than respond. Scams rely on urgency. Taking a moment to step back is often the best first step.

If needed, you can always verify a request by reaching out through a known church contact method (not by replying to the message itself).

Thank you for helping us care well for one another by staying aware and informed.

2026 Holy Week

Gather with us for Holy Week as we make our way together toward Easter morning.

Palm Cross Making Party, Thu, March 26 | Drop in 4-7 pm 

Join us on Thursday, March 26, for a Palm Cross Making Party as we prepare for Palm Sunday. Drop in anytime between 4:00 p.m. and 7:00 p.m. to learn how to make palm crosses, enjoy time together, and help us get ready for worship. Pizza will be served during the party. 

You are welcome to stay and make crosses at church, or you may pick up palms to take home and make your own. If you take palms home, please be sure all finished crosses are returned to the church building before worship on Palm Sunday morning, March 29.

Palm Sunday Worship, March 29 | 11 am

Our worship service will include the Palm Procession.

This year, our Holy Week schedule  will not include a Maundy Thursday service.

Community Ministry Set Up, Fri, April 3 | 10 am – noon  

Join us in unloading the Feed More delivery and setting up the pantry for Saturday’s ministry.

Good Friday Service, April 3 | 7 pm

Join us for an interactive and creative service as we reflect together on the meaning of Christ’s passion.

Community Ministry Sat, April 4 | 7:30 –11:30 am 

Join us as we welcome neighbors, share food, and witness Christ among us. All are welcome.

*In place of an Easter egg hunt on Saturday, the congregation will host a family event in late April. (Date TBD)

Easter Morning, Sun, April 5 | 11:00 am  

Join us for Easter Sunday Worship, and please bring fresh flowers with you as we decorate the flower cross together. After the service, we encourage everyone to take part in Easter on Parade on Monument Avenue.

Worship Online Only This Sunday, February 1

Join us on Zoom at 11:00 a.m. EST
https://us02web.zoom.us/j/87556771291?pwd=CU27CiuVYRJGjM9dGmq53nZANA7XDg.1

Out of an abundance of caution and due to the extreme temperatures, we have made the decision not to gather in person for worship this Sunday.

This creative service will include time for everyone to worship together in one virtual space and opportunities for more meaningful connection in smaller breakout rooms. We hope you will join us.


Why we made this decision
We are incredibly grateful for the individuals who did an outstanding job clearing the perimeter of our church buildings. The sidewalks and entrances are accessible thanks to their dedicated work.

The concern lies beyond the immediate perimeter. Street parking remains unpredictable, and parking in the church lots will be extremely limited due to lingering ice and snow.

Although no significant new snow is expected, the decision reflects ongoing challenges from the last storm combined with safety concerns related to freezing temperatures.


Business Meeting Rescheduled to next Sun, Feb. 8


Our Quarterly Business Meeting has been rescheduled for next Sunday, February 8, and will take place immediately following worship.

Our primary goal with these meetings is strong participation, and we believe this change gives us the best chance of gathering well and engaging fully. There are many important things for us to come together and discuss.

We encourage everyone to read the reports submitted by our leaders ahead of time. Doing so will allow us to devote more of our time in the meeting to conversation, reflection, and discernment rather than information sharing alone.

Members of the church can access the report using the hyperlink included in the Tab Weekly e-newsletter.

A heartfelt thank you to all of our leaders who have worked so faithfully over the last six months. Your thoughtful reflections and careful storytelling in these reports help shape our shared understanding of the church’s life and direction. We are grateful for your leadership.

Building Closed: Sun. Jan. 25: Self or Group Guided Worship/Prayer

Thank you for joining us for self-guided worship today. Because of the projected snow and ice storm, our church building is closed and we are not gathering on site or on Zoom. For everyone’s safety, no activities will take place in the building, and it is likely the building will remain closed into the early part of the work week.

Today we invite you to worship where you are. You have two options and you are welcome to do either one or both. A recording of an Epiphany season service from last year is posted below. You will also find a beginner-friendly guided prayer experience based on Matthew 4:12–23 posted below.

If you would like to share the experience with others, consider setting up a personal Zoom call and inviting friends, family, or members of your Sunday school class or community circle to join you.

As we prepare, let us hold in prayer those most affected by the storm, especially our neighbors who are vulnerable, and those caring for our wider community throughout the weather event, including
• Crews working to restore power
• Those clearing and treating our roads
• Emergency personnel and medical staff
• Outreach teams responding to people in crisis
• Neighbors helping neighbors

Looking ahead, please plan to join us next Sunday, February 1, at 11:00 a.m. for our Communion service, followed by a church-wide business meeting and lunch. We look forward to being together again and celebrating all that God is doing in and through our church family.

We are holding you in prayer and trust that you will stay safe, warm, and connected in the days ahead.

Continue below for the Guided Colloquy Prayer on this week’s Gospel Lesson, Matthew 4:12–23 and/or the Epiphany season service video.

Guided Colloquy Prayer

An imaginative, gentle conversation with Jesus or someone from today’s Gospel. For individuals, families, or small groups.

What you need: A Bible, a journal or paper, a pen. Optional candle.

Time: About twenty to thirty minutes.

Scripture

  1. Read Matthew 4:12–23 aloud, slowly. 
  2. If you are with others, invite one person to read clearly. 
  3. If you are alone, consider reading it twice, a little softer the second time.

Prepare your heart

  1. Sit comfortably. Place your feet on the floor or rest in a seated position that feels steady. Close your eyes or lower your gaze.
  2. Take three slow breaths. With each breath, remember you are already in God’s loving presence.
  3. If you wish, light a candle as a simple sign that you are entering prayer.

Enter the story

  • Read the passage again. As you listen, picture the shoreline of the Sea of Galilee.
  • Notice the sounds of water.
  • Notice the feel and smell of the nets.
  • See the faces of Simon Peter, Andrew, James, and John.
  • Hear Jesus say, “Follow me.”
  • Let one detail stand out to you. 
  • Do not force it. Simply notice.

Begin the conversation

  1. Open your journal. 
  2. Choose one person for a short, written conversation
  • Jesus
  • Simon Peter
  • Andrew
  • James or John
  • Zebedee, the father who remains with the boat

3. Write the name at the top of the page. 

4. Imagine sitting or walking with them by the water. 

5. Write a few lines as if you were talking with a trusted friend. Keep it simple and honest.

Try one prompt to get started
Jesus, what do you see in me today that makes you say, “Follow me”

Andrew, what was it like to drop the net so quickly

James or John, what was hardest to leave and what felt unexpectedly easy

Zebedee, how did you experience God as your sons stepped out

1.  After you write a question or two, pause. 

2. Listen quietly for a moment, then write the response you sense. You are not forcing God’s voice. You are offering your imagination to the Holy Spirit and testing what you hear by what you know of Jesus’ goodness in Scripture. 

3. Keep writing back and forth for five to ten minutes.

Listen again

  1. Close your journal. 
  2. Sit quietly for one full minute. If a word or phrase from the passage returns to you, receive it as a gift. 
  3. If your mind wanders, gently return to your breath and to Jesus’ invitation, “Follow me.”

Respond: Write a short prayer of two or three sentences. 

  1. Name one “net” you sense Jesus inviting you to release today and one step of following you can take this week.
  2. If you are with others, each person may share one sentence about what they noticed or received. 
  3. Honor that God may be working in different ways in each person.

Closing prayer

Jesus, Light in our darkness, thank you for stepping onto our everyday shoreline. Give us courage to release what we cling to and to follow you with open hands, open calendars, and open hearts. Amen.

Previously Recorded Worship Service

Epiphany Season: January 26, 2025: Scripture John 2:1–11

Participatory Worship at Tabernacle Baptist Church

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